Consent

You've found your perfect wife. You will make her see it herself.
You've invested in a remote property with enough space and privacy to fully exercise your imagination, or a woman on a leash. You've been studying the CIA manuals on inducing regression through psychological shock, and sensory deprivation. You have plenty of options. You may now have more of an idea of where you went wrong before, and why you failed in the past. That doesn't mean you only have easy choices ahead of you. You'll need to rebuild her one day soon, something interrogators are rarely concerned with. Now she'll begin to learn. She might even learn to enjoy it.